January 2026

In Memorium

By Susan Kujawa
Posted: 12/18/2025

A long-standing custom at Pasadena Village is to take time out each November to remember those among our Village who have passed away during the year. This year’s celebration of life was held November 19 under the leadership of Claire Gorfinkel.

Members gathered in the Flintridge Community Room to listen as Village members and others recounted some of the stories that made up the lives of those who are no longer with us. At the beginning of the event, Claire Gorfinkel reminded the guests that we only had use of the room for a limited time, adding “perhaps that is a good metaphor for the purpose of this event.”

Long-time members were recalled for their contributions during the formation of the Village. Highlights from their eventful lives were shared, giving everyone a deep sense of who they were and what they meant to their friends and loved ones. A daughter of a Village member recounted how, at her urging, her father had joined the Village just last year. A very short time later, his health declined rapidly. She was put in contact with the Village Care Team where she got advice and referrals for hospice and medical equipment. “I couldn’t believe how caring and supportive people were – for someone they barely had time to know.”

Looming over this year’s remembrance was the disastrous Eaton Fire. Four of the people we spoke of were displaced by the fire. One member was displaced for five months, but thankfully was able to return home for the last month of his life. Three other members lost their homes, and it was the shared belief among those in the room that the trauma and disruption to their lives played a role in their passing.

There were also joyful moments to the occasion. We recalled how two early members, Peggy Sisson and Patrick Dunavan, were part of an early “caper” to the Grand Canyon, and how much fun was had by all. We remembered hiking the local mountains, with Betty Medearis and Peter LeSourd. We shared our deep appreciation of Fritzie Culick and her infectious zest for life. 

As Claire Gorfinkel remarked, “Some people think that an event like this is depressing. In contrast, I find it joyful to recall and share memories of people we care about. Don’t you hope that friends will express appreciation for you, after you pass away?”

Everyone who spoke stressed that it was the deep and abiding friendships they made with other Village members that they appreciate and remember the most; the impact that is made by sharing your life with another person, all the more remarkable because these friendships arise in our later years. At the end of the program, we adjourned to the Village offices for refreshments and more conversation, grateful for the friends and relationships we built through Pasadena Village.