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October 2025

September 2025

August 2025

Lessons From A Fire
08/31/2025

A Warm Welcome to A New Board Member
08/28/2025

About Kieran Highsmith
08/28/2025

Finding Common Ground in a Divided Society
08/27/2025

Art From The Ashes: Second Reception
08/26/2025

Building Community Through Connections: Some Advice for New Members
08/26/2025

Critical Issues: A Call to Action
08/26/2025

Organizer Training Empowers Villagers to Lead the Way
08/26/2025

President's Message
08/26/2025

Reflections From a Backyard Garden -Taking a Moment to Be Still
08/26/2025

Reflections From a Backyard Garden -Taking a Moment to Be Still
08/26/2025

Super Agers
08/26/2025

The Altadena Dining Club
08/26/2025

Use It or Lose It: How to Offset Muscle Loss at Any Age
08/26/2025

Dunbar Number: Understanding the Limits of Human Relationships
08/25/2025

A Turning Point Towards Growth and Purpose
08/23/2025

Unbreak My Heart
08/23/2025

Lora's Return to Writing
08/18/2025

Nice Clean Colored Girls
08/18/2025

Sanctity Denied: A Pasadena Story of Race and Silence
08/18/2025

Some Thoughts at 3:00 AM by Beverly Lafontaine
08/16/2025

Old Again by Sally Asmundson
08/15/2025

Old by Sally Asmundson
08/15/2025

Art From the Ashes
08/07/2025

Claire Gorfinkel Retires from Board of Directors
08/05/2025

2025 Annual Meeting: A Year of Resilience
08/04/2025

A Walk Through 2024-25
08/04/2025

President's Message
08/01/2025

July 2025

June 2025

May 2025

A Day to Celebrate, Connect, and Empower: Older Americans Month at Victory Park
05/30/2025

End of Life: You Do Have Choices!
05/30/2025

Get Moving, Pasadena Village: Walking Toward a Healthier, Happier You
05/30/2025

Music: A Universal Language
05/30/2025

President's Message
05/30/2025

The New Grammar Guardian of Pasadena Village
05/30/2025

Undue Influence: Keep your friends close and your enemies closer
05/30/2025

Village Within a Village
05/30/2025

What do we do now?
05/30/2025

A Tribute to Dad
05/05/2025

A Tribute to Mom
05/05/2025

A Board Director Perspective
05/02/2025

A Death Valley Adventure
05/02/2025

Ask an Architect
05/02/2025

Message from the President
05/02/2025

My 15-Minute City
05/02/2025

Neighboring Anew
05/02/2025

Scam Red Flags
05/02/2025

Sir Beckett, A Woman's Best Friend
05/02/2025

Volunteer Appreciation: Giving a New Level of Love and Caring
05/02/2025

April 2025

March 2025

About Senior Solutions
03/28/2025

Building a Bridge With Journey House, A Home Base for Former Foster Youth
03/28/2025

Come for the Knitting, Stay for the Conversation... and the Cookies
03/28/2025

Creating Safe and Smart Spaces with Home Technology
03/28/2025

Finding Joy in My Role on The Pasadena Village Board
03/28/2025

I've Fallen and I Can't Get Up!
03/28/2025

Managing Anxiety
03/28/2025

Message from Our President: Keeping Pasadena Village Strong Together
03/28/2025

My Favorite Easter Gift
03/28/2025

The Hidden History of Black Women in WWII
03/28/2025

Urinary Tract Infection – Watch Out!
03/28/2025

Volunteer Coordinator and Blade-Runner
03/28/2025

Continuing Commitment to Combating Racism
03/26/2025

Goodbye and Keep Cold by Robert Frost
03/13/2025

What The Living Do by Marie Howe
03/13/2025

Racism is Not Genetic
03/11/2025

Bill Gould, The First
03/07/2025

THIS IS A CHAPTER, NOT MY WHOLE STORY
03/07/2025

Dramatic Flair: Villagers Share their Digital Art
03/03/2025

Empowering Senior LGBTQ+ Caregivers
03/03/2025

A Life Never Anticipated
03/02/2025

Eaton Fire Changes Life
03/02/2025

February 2025

Commemorating Black History Month 2025
02/28/2025

Transportation at the Pasadena Village
02/28/2025

A Look at Proposition 19
02/27/2025

Behind the Scenes: Understanding the Pasadena Village Board and Its Role
02/27/2025

Beyond and Within the Village: The Power of One
02/27/2025

Celebrating Black Voices
02/27/2025

Creatively Supporting Our Village Community
02/27/2025

Decluttering: More Than The Name Implies
02/27/2025

Hidden Gems of Forest Lawn Museum
02/27/2025

LA River Walk
02/27/2025

Message from the President
02/27/2025

Phoenix Rising
02/27/2025

1619 Conversations with West African Art
02/25/2025

The Party Line
02/24/2025

Bluebird by Charles Bukowski
02/17/2025

Dreams by Langston Hughes
02/17/2025

Haiku - Four by Fritzie
02/17/2025

Haikus - Nine by Virginia
02/17/2025

Wind and Fire
02/17/2025

Partnerships Amplify Relief Efforts
02/07/2025

Another Community Giving Back
02/05/2025

Diary of Disaster Response
02/05/2025

Eaton Fire: A Community United in Loss and Recovery
02/05/2025

Healing Powers of Creative Energy
02/05/2025

Living the Mission
02/05/2025

Message from the President: Honoring Black History Month
02/05/2025

Surviving and Thriving: Elder Health Considerations After the Fires
02/05/2025

Treasure Hunting in The Ashes
02/05/2025

Villager's Stories
02/05/2025

A Beginning of Healing
02/03/2025

Hectic Evacuation From Eaton Canyon Fire
02/02/2025

Hurricanes and Fires are Different Monsters
02/02/2025

January 2025

My House Didn't Burn to The Ground

By Bridget Brewster
Posted: 09/30/2025
Tags: bridget brewster, la fires, eaton fire, newsletter october 2025

Over these past 8 months, it has been interesting to hear some thoughts expressed: “I’m lucky. My house didn’t burn, and I feel awful for those who lost everything.” “I wasn’t in the fire zone, so I wasn’t really affected.”

I’ve thought about these statements more often than I consider what I’m going to watch on Netflix. One thing I know for sure and certain: if you live in this area or are a Villager, you have been affected! Another thing I’m equally positive about is that there is no positive outcome from comparing who has it worse.

I want to shed a little light on the ones who sometimes refer to themselves as “the lucky ones…” those whose houses still stand. Luck has nothing to do with it. It is simply a fact that embers didn’t fall on their homes; but nevertheless, all manner of devastation has rained down on them in torrents. Catherine Fuller said it well, “My house is one of two on my block that didn't burn down. I have no way to account for it. I don't think God loves me more than he loves my neighbors.”  She doesn’t expect to return before late November.

LuCinda Haagenson may have been among the first Altadena Villagers to move back into her house; she had to make it a home again, and it wasn’t easy. “We are blessed!  After the fire, our house is still standing. However, I had to learn a whole new business model dealing with insurance adjusters and all the necessary restoration companies. There were still many challenges and problems to deal with, some with companies I learned were very unscrupulous!”  She went on to say, “Through all the angst, I felt supported and upheld by the Village with their phone calls and greeting cards. It really did lift my spirits to know that there is a caring ‘family’ in our Village!”

The experience has been different for Natalie Orta, who is still living with her daughter and son-in-law in Rancho Cucamonga. Nine of the 17 homes in her cul-de-sac were destroyed. “Due to the proximity of the burned homes, my insurance declared the entire contents of my home a total loss. I lost books, art, linens, clothes… well, essentially everything. Is anything saved? Who the hell knows?” Natalie went on to say, “I’m grateful for the generosity of so many individuals and entities. The Village was among those who provided me support, computer guidance (try creating multiple spreadsheets without help!), and a listening ear when I just needed to talk.”

The Village Care Team continues to stay in touch with the 40 Villagers most seriously affected by the Eaton Fire. Wayne April stated, “Those whose homes were not burned went through the same crisis as the ones who did burn, because the relief at finding that the house survived was superseded by the realization that it was uninhabitable. Those whose homes stood faced the same trauma and grief of being homeless.”

So much has been written and documented about the thousands whose homes were destroyed, but little has been told about the experience of having a house, but not a home. This article barely touches on the extent of the upheaval, anxiety and continued pressure of daily decisions and negotiations to make it possible to return home. While these Villagers may not be rebuilding a house, they most certainly are recreating a home… eventually.

In the words of Natalie Orta, “We are Altadenans, and we’re all doing our best to face heart-wrenching decisions daily.”

 

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